Join Us





To join, please complete the relevant Application Form from the choices below and you will get a response from the club.

If you are a Single Male



Single Males must have approval back from us before attending any event. If you turn up without approval, you may be turned away. Full membership, or Flirts membership may be granted on the basis of current availability. 

If you are a Single Female



Single Females are always welcome at Xtasia if Over 18, and smartly presented. You must have appropriate ID, such as a plastic driving licence or a passport and utility bill.

If you are a Couple



Couples are always welcome at Xtasia if Over 18, and smartly presented. You must have appropriate ID, such as a plastic driving licence or a passport and utility bill.


Flirts Cinema Membership



If day time access is required to the Cinema and Flirts Bar, you can apply for Flirts membership at our bar during the week, with legal ID. Access to the main club is restricted though.

Fetish Membership



Please note Fetish Membership is only valid for Fetish Events and is gender neutral. If you wish to attend both swingers and fetish events, please select a swingers membership to match your legal status.